This year for Nate's birthday, I wanted to surprise him with something that would be fun even though we didn't have much time for any celebration that day. So, the day beforehand, I prepared him a birthday cake in a can. I modified the label I found for free online to make it more personal, and I left it in the car for him to take to work the next day.
Luckily he liked it! He also liked the gift and card Austin made for him (with a little help).
Then, a couple weeks ago we made a really nice birthday dinner and had family over to celebrate. We celebrated my brother Nathan's birthday at the same time. I made a really delicious, and very rich, chocolate hazelnut cake. Then after dinner, we opened some gifts, of course.
I feel really blessed to have both of these guys in my life!
Sunday, September 27, 2015
The Homestead
A couple weeks ago, on Friday, September 11, we headed out to Midway to spend some time with my family at The Homestead. We had a lot of fun just hanging out and relaxing there. That afternoon we went bowling in Heber. I am not a very good bowler, so I was very happy when I broke 100...
After coming back, we went for a short walk/hike, and enjoyed the beautiful fall colors!
My brother Allan and his wife Katie arrived soon after that, and we all went swimming. The weather couldn't have been better for the occasion, and we had fun racing across the pool, chicken fighting, and relaxing in the hot tub. Austin enjoyed playing in the pool too, and especially had fun with Aunt Rosanne and Aunt Stephanie.
After swimming, we all showered and had dinner at our condo. (Unfortunately, most of us got very cold showers and thus realized the condo must have a very small water heater.) Following dinner, Austin went to bed while my dad set his telescope up outside so we could all get a good look at some constellations and star clusters. Then we watched a movie together and went to bed.
The next morning we had a pancake breakfast and played some spikeball before heading off. We also took a couple pictures of everyone in front of the condo.
Instead of going straight home, we stopped by the Orbital ATK open house for a hot dog lunch and to tour Nate's workplace. We only get to see his workplace every couple years during such open houses.
After coming back, we went for a short walk/hike, and enjoyed the beautiful fall colors!
My brother Allan and his wife Katie arrived soon after that, and we all went swimming. The weather couldn't have been better for the occasion, and we had fun racing across the pool, chicken fighting, and relaxing in the hot tub. Austin enjoyed playing in the pool too, and especially had fun with Aunt Rosanne and Aunt Stephanie.
After swimming, we all showered and had dinner at our condo. (Unfortunately, most of us got very cold showers and thus realized the condo must have a very small water heater.) Following dinner, Austin went to bed while my dad set his telescope up outside so we could all get a good look at some constellations and star clusters. Then we watched a movie together and went to bed.
The next morning we had a pancake breakfast and played some spikeball before heading off. We also took a couple pictures of everyone in front of the condo.
Instead of going straight home, we stopped by the Orbital ATK open house for a hot dog lunch and to tour Nate's workplace. We only get to see his workplace every couple years during such open houses.
Monday, September 21, 2015
Labor Day Weekend
We didn't do anything particularly fancy for Labor Day weekend this year, but we did get together one evening with Nate's siblings Melissa and Michael and their families. First, we played at the local park for awhile.
Then we came back to our house for dinner in our backyard. It was nice to have everyone over at our house this time; usually we are the ones driving to everyone else's place.
Monday morning we went on another short hike with Austin. This time we headed up to Dooly Knob on Antelope Island. I am really glad Austin seems to enjoy hiking so much!
(Unfortunately, our volunteer photographer took pictures of us with an odd person popping up from the rock behind us.)
Then we came back to our house for dinner in our backyard. It was nice to have everyone over at our house this time; usually we are the ones driving to everyone else's place.
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| Austin eating a cookie with his cousins |
Monday morning we went on another short hike with Austin. This time we headed up to Dooly Knob on Antelope Island. I am really glad Austin seems to enjoy hiking so much!
(Unfortunately, our volunteer photographer took pictures of us with an odd person popping up from the rock behind us.)
Tuesday, September 15, 2015
Planned Parenthood, Abortion, and Life
I recently added to a facebook discussion with someone we know about abortion and Planned Parenthood. During that discussion, this person argued that while they thought abortion was a poor choice of birth control, closing down places like Planned Parenthood greatly increases abortion rates. This person explained that Planned Parenthood and education steer people away from using abortion as birth control, and that countries with pro-life/anti-abortion laws have higher abortion rates.
The statements and arguments made during this discussion greatly perplexed me. They seemed illogical and counter intuitive. I don't know of any other issue that works the way this person was arguing that abortions work. Can a country lower murder rates by legalizing the killing of others? Robberies are certainly not decreased by making safe holds easier to access and legalizing robbery. I am also quite sure that the number of rapes isn't going to go down if rape is decriminalized. Even during Prohibition, which is not something that I think was a good idea, the amount of drinking did decrease.
My perplexity drove me to look into the topic a little further myself. While I doubt what I have found or what I write here will greatly change anyone's opinion, I still wanted to lay out my findings and thoughts on the matter as I processed this information.
During my search, I discovered was that the vast majority of outlets reporting that abortion rates go down with ready access to abortion pulled these findings from studies done by the Alan Guttmacher Institute (AGI). These studies have not been without criticism. For example, as explained in this article from the National Review, the AGI study fails to note decreased teen sexual activity as a reason for decreased teen abortions. Another study conducted in Mexico by researchers from the West Virginia University-Charleston in 2012 showed that AGI overestimated the number of induced abortions in the Federal District of Mexico by 1000%. (Some of the findings of this study are summarized here for those who don't want to look through the whole study.) This same study brings up problems with how AGI calculates maternal death rates from abortions and estimates of the number of abortions performed in places where abortion is illegal.
At the same time, other articles and studies available would indicate that contrary to AGI's findings, pro-life measures are inconsequential in reducing abortion rates and other problems that stem from abortion issues. For example, this study from 2014 titled "Abortion legislation, maternal healthcare, fertility, female literacy, sanitation, violence against women and maternal deaths: a natural experiment in 32 Mexican states" found that there were no benefits or negative consequences to the maternal mortality rates that came from laws protecting unborn children. This study instead found that maternal mortality outcomes are largely explained "by a combination of variables related to maternal health-care, fertility, female literacy, intimate-partner violence against women and sanitation."
Interestingly enough, abortion rates are down all over in the United States. According to an article from the AP written in June of this year, "Several of the states that have been most aggressive in passing anti-abortion laws — including Indiana, Missouri, Ohio, and Oklahoma — have seen their abortion numbers drop by more than 15 percent since 2010. But more liberal states such as New York, Washington and Oregon also had declines of that magnitude, even as they maintained unrestricted access to abortion." The reason for the decrease in abortions is unknown and has been widely debated. Some credit pro-life laws and technologies such as ultrasounds that increase awareness of the human life for those who may be considering abortion. After all, it is a lot harder to brush off unborn children as mere unwanted "tissue" when ultrasounds clearly show expectant women have tiny heads, limbs, and torsos with little heartbeats inside their wombs.
Others insist that easy access to contraceptives and sex education are responsible for abortion decreases. Yet even that is up for debate. As explained in this article from LifeNews.com, "Contraceptive use has been rising since the 1960s, but increased use of contraceptives did not reduce the incidence of abortions in either the 1970s or the 1980s. More important, the unintended-pregnancy rate has been fairly stable over the long term and has increased slightly since the mid-1990s. Again, greater use of contraceptives has not reduced the unintended-pregnancy rate." Additionally, this article explains that ready access to contraception is not necessarily going to greatly reduce abortion rates by citing a 2002 AGI survey of "10,000 sexually active women who were not using contraception. Only 12 percent of the women cited cost or availability as a reason why they were not using contraceptives. More common reasons included a willingness to run the risk of getting pregnant and wanting to demonstrate trust in a partner."
Overall though, it would seem that at least statistically speaking, pro-life laws and accessibility to abortion clinics are rather inconclusive factors in and of themselves when in comes to the abortion rate. I personally find it a bit dubious that much of the research done supporting ready access to abortion comes from AGI, a research institute that started out being housed by Planned Parenthood and has had financial support from Planned Parenthood in the past. They therefore don't appear to come from a remotely neutral standpoint when it comes the issues they study. Of course, I hardly think that articles from many other sources referenced here, such as LifeNews.com, are neutral on the subject either. It seems difficult to find much unbiased information on the topic. After all, it is a very controversial and emotionally charged subject, and most people simply are not neutral on the matter.
I would agree with those that argue for education to reduce abortion rates. However, the sort of education that I would argue for differs some from many of those advocating for readily accessible abortion. I am very much opposed to much of the "education" Planned Parenthood offers, as I have read numerous examples of how Planned Parenthood ultimately promotes promiscuity and encourages risky behaviors. For example, their answer to the question, "Is promiscuity a bad thing?" hardly encourages restraint. In fact, part of their response states, "Since the number of sexual partners you’ve had doesn’t say anything about your character, your morals, or your personality – or about anything at all really– there’s nothing bad or unhealthy about having a big number of sexual partners." Additionally, Planned Parenthood has a guide called "Healthy, Happy, and Hot: A Young Person's Guide to Their Rights, Sexuality, and Living with HIV," wherein Planned Parenthood states, "Sharing your HIV status is called disclosure. Your decision about whether to disclose may change with different people and situations. You have the right to decide if, when, and how to disclose your HIV status." Telling people that there is nothing wrong with having as many sexual partners as they want, and telling them they don't have to disclose the fact they have HIV to their partners hardly helps people stay healthy and prevent problems. Instead, it teaches people to be self-centered and irresponsible. It steers them to moral relativism while encouraging unhealthy and even dangerous behaviors, as explained in this Town Hall article.
Planned Parenthood has been surrounded by controversy since it was founded by Margaret Sanger. It started in 1921 as the American Birth Control League and was changed to the Planned Parenthood Federation of America in 1942. Margaret Sanger was a member of the American Eugenics Society and was also associated with the National Society for the Legalization of Euthanasia, as were many others involved in the American Birth Control League and Planned Parenthood. Sanger also started The Negro Project in 1939, which is frequently thought to be a way of further implementing her racist and eugenic ideas by reducing the black population, while others argue that her involvement in these endeavors was minimal and innocent enough. While many attribute her efforts to provide birth control to blacks and the poorest in society as a charitable endeavor, I find her motives in the matter questionable given her involvement in the eugenics movement that had aims of curtailing and even eliminating these populations. Furthermore, Margaret Sanger and other prominent Planned Parenthood members have said and written countless unsavory things - far too many to include much of them in this text. While Planned Parenthood has tried to justify some of those things, I again find it difficult to believe that Sanger was a particularly upright and heroic figure considering her advocacy for eugenics, her other objectionable involvements, and the associations she kept. Such associations combined with her own words and those of others at Planned Parenthood paint an overall deplorable picture of her and many of her organization's agendas.
If any previous evidence of their moral depravity was yet lacking, we can now see videos of the cold and calloused manner in which Planned Parenthood officials discuss cutting up and selling baby parts. We have been told of the morbid jokes made at Planned Parenthood abortion clinics, and we have also been told that aborted babies are sometimes collected without permission from the mothers. I cannot and will not voice any support for such an organization in which it is acceptable for a fully intact baby with a beating heart to have its head cut open so that its brain may be harvested.
Many argue that Planned Parenthood serves to meet many other health needs that are not related to abortion. Regardless of the other services they provide though, the truth remains that a large proportion of their work is in performing abortions or providing other services related to abortions. In the end, I believe that the evils of Planned Parenthood greatly outweigh the positives, especially when there are many other places that people could go to get these and other healthcare services that do not also perform abortions. For me, the idea of supporting and funding Planned Parenthood for the good they do even as they continue to kill millions of babies through abortion is about as ridiculous as praising Hitler for the Volkswagen or the Autobahn while sidestepping the fact that he was also behind the Holocaust. Both China and the USSR made progress in modernizing and industrializing their countries under Mao and Stalin, but praising them for these things while ignoring the millions upon millions that were killed under them would also be ludicrous.
I believe in the sanctity of life, and because of that I stand against abortion in nearly all cases. With all the information available concerning the abhorrent abortion practices of Planned Parenthood, I believe it is reprehensible that we as a country continue to offer them funding.
There is one thing though it would seem that I do agree upon with the person I originally had this facebook discussion with: the the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the gospel truths found there provide a clear answer for those with unplanned or unwanted pregnancies, and teaching these principles will help people in such dilemmas. In fact, I can't think of a better place to turn to for an education on such matters.
The statements and arguments made during this discussion greatly perplexed me. They seemed illogical and counter intuitive. I don't know of any other issue that works the way this person was arguing that abortions work. Can a country lower murder rates by legalizing the killing of others? Robberies are certainly not decreased by making safe holds easier to access and legalizing robbery. I am also quite sure that the number of rapes isn't going to go down if rape is decriminalized. Even during Prohibition, which is not something that I think was a good idea, the amount of drinking did decrease.
My perplexity drove me to look into the topic a little further myself. While I doubt what I have found or what I write here will greatly change anyone's opinion, I still wanted to lay out my findings and thoughts on the matter as I processed this information.
During my search, I discovered was that the vast majority of outlets reporting that abortion rates go down with ready access to abortion pulled these findings from studies done by the Alan Guttmacher Institute (AGI). These studies have not been without criticism. For example, as explained in this article from the National Review, the AGI study fails to note decreased teen sexual activity as a reason for decreased teen abortions. Another study conducted in Mexico by researchers from the West Virginia University-Charleston in 2012 showed that AGI overestimated the number of induced abortions in the Federal District of Mexico by 1000%. (Some of the findings of this study are summarized here for those who don't want to look through the whole study.) This same study brings up problems with how AGI calculates maternal death rates from abortions and estimates of the number of abortions performed in places where abortion is illegal.
At the same time, other articles and studies available would indicate that contrary to AGI's findings, pro-life measures are inconsequential in reducing abortion rates and other problems that stem from abortion issues. For example, this study from 2014 titled "Abortion legislation, maternal healthcare, fertility, female literacy, sanitation, violence against women and maternal deaths: a natural experiment in 32 Mexican states" found that there were no benefits or negative consequences to the maternal mortality rates that came from laws protecting unborn children. This study instead found that maternal mortality outcomes are largely explained "by a combination of variables related to maternal health-care, fertility, female literacy, intimate-partner violence against women and sanitation."
Interestingly enough, abortion rates are down all over in the United States. According to an article from the AP written in June of this year, "Several of the states that have been most aggressive in passing anti-abortion laws — including Indiana, Missouri, Ohio, and Oklahoma — have seen their abortion numbers drop by more than 15 percent since 2010. But more liberal states such as New York, Washington and Oregon also had declines of that magnitude, even as they maintained unrestricted access to abortion." The reason for the decrease in abortions is unknown and has been widely debated. Some credit pro-life laws and technologies such as ultrasounds that increase awareness of the human life for those who may be considering abortion. After all, it is a lot harder to brush off unborn children as mere unwanted "tissue" when ultrasounds clearly show expectant women have tiny heads, limbs, and torsos with little heartbeats inside their wombs.
Others insist that easy access to contraceptives and sex education are responsible for abortion decreases. Yet even that is up for debate. As explained in this article from LifeNews.com, "Contraceptive use has been rising since the 1960s, but increased use of contraceptives did not reduce the incidence of abortions in either the 1970s or the 1980s. More important, the unintended-pregnancy rate has been fairly stable over the long term and has increased slightly since the mid-1990s. Again, greater use of contraceptives has not reduced the unintended-pregnancy rate." Additionally, this article explains that ready access to contraception is not necessarily going to greatly reduce abortion rates by citing a 2002 AGI survey of "10,000 sexually active women who were not using contraception. Only 12 percent of the women cited cost or availability as a reason why they were not using contraceptives. More common reasons included a willingness to run the risk of getting pregnant and wanting to demonstrate trust in a partner."
Overall though, it would seem that at least statistically speaking, pro-life laws and accessibility to abortion clinics are rather inconclusive factors in and of themselves when in comes to the abortion rate. I personally find it a bit dubious that much of the research done supporting ready access to abortion comes from AGI, a research institute that started out being housed by Planned Parenthood and has had financial support from Planned Parenthood in the past. They therefore don't appear to come from a remotely neutral standpoint when it comes the issues they study. Of course, I hardly think that articles from many other sources referenced here, such as LifeNews.com, are neutral on the subject either. It seems difficult to find much unbiased information on the topic. After all, it is a very controversial and emotionally charged subject, and most people simply are not neutral on the matter.
I would agree with those that argue for education to reduce abortion rates. However, the sort of education that I would argue for differs some from many of those advocating for readily accessible abortion. I am very much opposed to much of the "education" Planned Parenthood offers, as I have read numerous examples of how Planned Parenthood ultimately promotes promiscuity and encourages risky behaviors. For example, their answer to the question, "Is promiscuity a bad thing?" hardly encourages restraint. In fact, part of their response states, "Since the number of sexual partners you’ve had doesn’t say anything about your character, your morals, or your personality – or about anything at all really– there’s nothing bad or unhealthy about having a big number of sexual partners." Additionally, Planned Parenthood has a guide called "Healthy, Happy, and Hot: A Young Person's Guide to Their Rights, Sexuality, and Living with HIV," wherein Planned Parenthood states, "Sharing your HIV status is called disclosure. Your decision about whether to disclose may change with different people and situations. You have the right to decide if, when, and how to disclose your HIV status." Telling people that there is nothing wrong with having as many sexual partners as they want, and telling them they don't have to disclose the fact they have HIV to their partners hardly helps people stay healthy and prevent problems. Instead, it teaches people to be self-centered and irresponsible. It steers them to moral relativism while encouraging unhealthy and even dangerous behaviors, as explained in this Town Hall article.
Planned Parenthood has been surrounded by controversy since it was founded by Margaret Sanger. It started in 1921 as the American Birth Control League and was changed to the Planned Parenthood Federation of America in 1942. Margaret Sanger was a member of the American Eugenics Society and was also associated with the National Society for the Legalization of Euthanasia, as were many others involved in the American Birth Control League and Planned Parenthood. Sanger also started The Negro Project in 1939, which is frequently thought to be a way of further implementing her racist and eugenic ideas by reducing the black population, while others argue that her involvement in these endeavors was minimal and innocent enough. While many attribute her efforts to provide birth control to blacks and the poorest in society as a charitable endeavor, I find her motives in the matter questionable given her involvement in the eugenics movement that had aims of curtailing and even eliminating these populations. Furthermore, Margaret Sanger and other prominent Planned Parenthood members have said and written countless unsavory things - far too many to include much of them in this text. While Planned Parenthood has tried to justify some of those things, I again find it difficult to believe that Sanger was a particularly upright and heroic figure considering her advocacy for eugenics, her other objectionable involvements, and the associations she kept. Such associations combined with her own words and those of others at Planned Parenthood paint an overall deplorable picture of her and many of her organization's agendas.
If any previous evidence of their moral depravity was yet lacking, we can now see videos of the cold and calloused manner in which Planned Parenthood officials discuss cutting up and selling baby parts. We have been told of the morbid jokes made at Planned Parenthood abortion clinics, and we have also been told that aborted babies are sometimes collected without permission from the mothers. I cannot and will not voice any support for such an organization in which it is acceptable for a fully intact baby with a beating heart to have its head cut open so that its brain may be harvested.
Many argue that Planned Parenthood serves to meet many other health needs that are not related to abortion. Regardless of the other services they provide though, the truth remains that a large proportion of their work is in performing abortions or providing other services related to abortions. In the end, I believe that the evils of Planned Parenthood greatly outweigh the positives, especially when there are many other places that people could go to get these and other healthcare services that do not also perform abortions. For me, the idea of supporting and funding Planned Parenthood for the good they do even as they continue to kill millions of babies through abortion is about as ridiculous as praising Hitler for the Volkswagen or the Autobahn while sidestepping the fact that he was also behind the Holocaust. Both China and the USSR made progress in modernizing and industrializing their countries under Mao and Stalin, but praising them for these things while ignoring the millions upon millions that were killed under them would also be ludicrous.
I believe in the sanctity of life, and because of that I stand against abortion in nearly all cases. With all the information available concerning the abhorrent abortion practices of Planned Parenthood, I believe it is reprehensible that we as a country continue to offer them funding.
There is one thing though it would seem that I do agree upon with the person I originally had this facebook discussion with: the the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints and the gospel truths found there provide a clear answer for those with unplanned or unwanted pregnancies, and teaching these principles will help people in such dilemmas. In fact, I can't think of a better place to turn to for an education on such matters.
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